Bad Human! Training Yourself to Train Your Dog

Many dog behavior problems actually begin with inconsistent human behavior, not the dog itself. Learn practical dog training tips for stopping barking, leash pulling, jumping, chewing, and other bad habits through calm leadership, structure, and positive reinforcement. This guide explains how becoming a better pack leader can help raise a happier, better-behaved dog.
Posted By Pet Junction
Posted: Mar 15, 2013 Updated: May 11, 2026
Bad Human

Key Points

By: Jennifer New

Owning a dog requires time, patience, energy, and consistency — especially during the first months and years.

Dogs need:

  • Daily exercise
  • Mental stimulation
  • Structure
  • Repetition
  • Clear boundaries

As I think about whether I’ll ever bring another puppy home after my dog Hannah passes away, I’m honest with myself about what it takes.

Do I have the time and energy to properly train another member of the pack?

When I adopted my first cat years ago, I remember being amazed at how simple the adjustment seemed. The cat walked into the house, found the litter box and food bowl, and basically figured life out from there.

Dogs are very different.

There are:

  • Sleepless nights
  • House training accidents
  • Teething stages
  • Leash pulling
  • Nipping
  • Constant repetition

But if you put in the work early, the rewards are incredible.

Hannah became one of the gentlest and most dependable companions my children and I could have asked for — not by accident, but through consistency, patience, and training.


Stop Bad Dog Habits Before They Become Permanent

Most dog trainers agree that unwanted behaviors should be corrected early before they become deeply ingrained habits.

Here are some of the most common dog behavior problems owners should address immediately.

Don’t Feed Dogs Directly From the Table

If you routinely hand scraps to your dog while eating, don’t be surprised when begging becomes a daily problem.

If you want to share safe human food occasionally, place it in your dog’s bowl instead of feeding directly from the table.

This simple habit helps prevent:

  • Begging
  • Whining during meals
  • Jumping near the dinner table

Excessive Barking Should Never Be Ignored

Constant barking is usually your dog reacting to:

  • Anxiety
  • Excitement
  • Fear
  • Territorial behavior
  • Boredom

Instead of simply yelling at your dog, identify what’s triggering the barking and work on changing the response calmly and consistently.

Dogs respond far better to calm correction and redirection than emotional reactions.

Teach Dogs What They ARE Allowed to Chew

Every dog owner eventually learns this lesson the hard way.

My puppy once destroyed:

  • A copy of my wedding video
  • My address book
  • Several shoes

Puppies and dogs naturally need to chew, especially during teething phases. The key is teaching them what belongs to them and what doesn’t.

Replace inappropriate chewing immediately with:

  • Dog chew toys
  • Durable bones
  • Safe chew treats

Then praise your dog enthusiastically when they chew the correct item.

Positive reinforcement works far better than punishment.

Correct Leash Pulling Early

One of the biggest mistakes dog owners make is allowing leash pulling to continue unchecked.

Walking should feel calm and enjoyable for both dog and owner.

Whenever your dog pulls and creates tension on the leash:

  1. Stop walking immediately.
  2. Wait for your dog to look back at you.
  3. Praise the attention and calm behavior.
  4. Resume walking only when the leash relaxes.

This teaches your dog that pulling never gets them where they want to go faster.

Don’t Allow Dogs to Jump on Guests

Jumping may seem harmless when dogs are puppies, but it quickly becomes a frustrating problem as they grow larger.

Dogs should never be encouraged to jump on:

  • Guests
  • Children
  • Delivery drivers
  • Strangers

Instead, teach an alternative behavior like:

  • Sitting calmly
  • Waiting at the door
  • Going to a designated place

Reward calm greetings consistently.


The Best Dog Training Builds Trust and Consistency

At the end of the day, successful dog training isn’t really about domination or punishment.

It’s about:

  • Leadership
  • Consistency
  • Patience
  • Repetition
  • Trust

Dogs genuinely want guidance and structure from their owners.

When you provide calm leadership and clear expectations, most dogs become happier, more confident, and far easier to live with.

And sometimes, the biggest breakthrough in dog training happens when the owner changes first.


FAQ About Dog Behavior and Training

  1. Why do dogs develop bad habits?

    Dogs often develop bad habits because behaviors are unintentionally rewarded or inconsistently corrected by their owners.

  2. What is the best way to stop unwanted dog behavior?

    Consistency, positive reinforcement, structure, and early correction are the most effective ways to stop unwanted behaviors.

  3. Should you yell at a dog for bad behavior?

    No. Excessive yelling often increases anxiety and confusion. Calm, consistent correction works much better.

  4. How do dogs see pack leadership?

    Dogs naturally look for guidance and structure within the household. Calm and consistent humans typically become trusted leaders.

  5. How long does it take to retrain bad dog behavior?

    Some behaviors improve within weeks, while deeply ingrained habits may take months of consistent training.

  6. Is professional dog training worth it?

    Yes, especially for owners struggling with aggression, leash pulling, excessive barking, or obedience issues.

  7. What are the most common dog behavior problems?

    Common issues include: Barking, Jumping, Leash pulling, Chewing, Separation anxiety, Begging, Nipping

  8. Can older dogs still be trained?

    Absolutely. Older dogs can still learn new behaviors with patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement.


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